Being in a society: Compassion

Being in a society: Compassion

The human kind as a society is travelling farther exploring unknown territories, but at the same time individuals are more and more disengaging themselves from their immediate society. Many may argue that people are more connected these days with social media and technology. However, on a careful observation one may realize that this bond is very superficial. We are more self-reliant and the same time more isolated than ever before.

Rush to gain riches has made us more centered towards the ‘Self’. The self-centered attitude has insulated us from the society. We have built a glass wall around us. This wall deters us from reacting to the suffering of people around us. This wall allows us to remain focused on our own development, without paying much attention to things happening around us. Having said that, in today’s context is it practical to say that – one should relinquish everything he has, to be a socially conscious life? The wise of the world do not recommend such action.

The simplest thing we can do now, is to be nice to people when you get an opportunity. You can do nice things, even to some unknown, in many ways without much effort. For example, you are driving on a busy road and notice that a person is struggling to cross the road. You can be part of the mad crowd rushing past, or just kiss the break for a few seconds to let the person cross the road.

We can do many such small things in our everyday life and impact the life of others positively. We should just be aware and practice this consciously. Over time it will become our nature. Suddenly you may also realize that people will start to respect us for this quality.

Do to others what you would have them do to you. Be Compassionate.

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