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You are so engulfed with your daily chores, there is not even any time to plan for a break, forget about taking a break. Career ambitions, project deadlines, kids’ education and extracurricular activities, social media, sensational news and insensitive entertainment media – all work in unison to take every minute your life away from your ‘Self’. The many schools for yoga, meditation and self-realization operate for profit and do little to make a lasting impact.Your basic needs in life is not very different from that of your parents, but you seem to be busier and more restless. While the whole world has become fast paced, you cannot live the same way as your parents. Thinking about it may sound like that you have entered a never-ending dark tunnel. However, there are ways to escape this madness and recharge yourself – Travel.For many travel, which is synonyms to vacation, is an annual project, that involves lot of research and crowdsourcing of ideas – and begins with shortlisting location, booking for hotels/tours, saving or borrowing cash, applying for leave in office/school, arranging back-ups and managing post travel issues such as catching up things missed (kids’ homework, project status). Sometimes you feel that you added more stress to life by taking a vacation.It is true that a long and expensive vacation require a lot of planning and arrangement, but real value of such a break can be derived, if you keep in mind the real purpose of the vacation.Vacation is not about rushing to exotic or popular place, taking photo and sharing it on social media. It is about engaging in new experiences- experiences that introduces to a new world, experiences that brings new perspectives, and experiences that opens new dimensions of life. Here are few simple tips.Make vacations an important part of your life. Frequent, short and less expensive travel have proved to be more satisfying that longer and expensive travel.Push yourself out of your comfort zone. When travelling do not try to be in your comfort zone always. Explore new boundaries, be adventurous, but be mindful of personal safety and security.Remain in the moment. It is only when we travel you can be in the moment. Do not plan too much for the next day, just a skeletal plan of activities and logistics is good enough. Enjoy every moment and go with the flow.Strengthen bonds with family and friends. Vacation is a great time for personal bondage. Set aside enough time to relax as a group – talk about the great things that happened, the wonderful things you did together, share how important you feel about each other.Unwind and introspect. Travelling gives you the much-needed time to recalibrate yourself. Keep sometime to remain in solitude, and let your inner self question every part of your life – what are doing to your life, what are your ultimate goals, are you going in the right direction. Do not stress. Let the thoughts flow as it comes. You may feel more energetic with reassurance about your progress, discover more about yourself, and get ideas to realign your future action to your priorities.Shed your weight. Do not carry anything from your daily baggage to your vacation. Disconnect from anything that will remind you of your life once you reach home.Enable the ‘Airplane’ mode, not only on your mobile devices, but on yourself as well. Travel, experience, explore, discover and bond. Rejuvenate to become a better person.Bon voyage.
More detailsPublished - Thu, 16 Jun 2022
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Are you constantly thinking – how to progress in career, what will happen next, how can you handle a situation, planning for retirement and kids’ education. Then, you must stop now.In the recent days, you can realize by yourselves and hear from friends that you are thinking a lot more than it is warranted. You are not alone. This syndrome is becoming more common, given the many uncertainties in the world today. However, with a careful and an objective evaluation of the situation that you are worried about, you would conclude that it was not a “problem”’ at all to being with.Yes, you were busy worrying about a ‘No Problem’.A situation can be concluded as a ‘No problem’ from three dimensionsthe situation you considered to produce a negative impact, in fact does not have any impact on you,you have untangled the situation – found solutions to eliminate or lower the impact to acceptable levels,the situation is so profound or overwhelming that you do not have any option to manage itMany a times even perceived impact is not based on actual assessment, but result of mere confusion of facts, fables heard, or just illusions based on biased information. You get so much consumed with the impact of the situation and lose sight of the problem itself.In earlier days, you are expected to write all the steps you had gone through to solve a mathematical problem. Some marks were granted if you have followed the right steps, even though the final result was incorrect. You will be caught off guard, if you have not followed the steps but arrived at the right result. These days with multiple choice questions and computer-based exams, we lost our ability to think systematically and always wanted to quickly arrive at the solution.You can lower a lot of stress in life and experience calmness in mind, if you systematically follow the problem-solving techniques, generally discussed in corporate environment. For some reason we believe the problem-solving techniques we apply in office environment will not work in personal life situations. Remember the DMAIC technique and the fish-bone diagrams. They and many other similar tools work the same ways in personal situation as it would in professional environment.The moment a concern flashes in your head, get to the basics with a pen and paper – address the situation focusing all your attention on it. You will end up with one of the three dimensions discussed above, and in the process, you will end up worrying far less and be better prepared to face the situation.
More detailsPublished - Thu, 16 Jun 2022
Created by - AvtarLabs Team
The human kind as a society is travelling farther exploring unknown territories, but at the same time individuals are more and more disengaging themselves from their immediate society. Many may argue that people are more connected these days with social media and technology. However, on a careful observation one may realize that this bond is very superficial. We are more self-reliant and the same time more isolated than ever before.Rush to gain riches has made us more centered towards the ‘Self’. The self-centered attitude has insulated us from the society. We have built a glass wall around us. This wall deters us from reacting to the suffering of people around us. This wall allows us to remain focused on our own development, without paying much attention to things happening around us. Having said that, in today’s context is it practical to say that – one should relinquish everything he has, to be a socially conscious life? The wise of the world do not recommend such action.The simplest thing we can do now, is to be nice to people when you get an opportunity. You can do nice things, even to some unknown, in many ways without much effort. For example, you are driving on a busy road and notice that a person is struggling to cross the road. You can be part of the mad crowd rushing past, or just kiss the break for a few seconds to let the person cross the road.We can do many such small things in our everyday life and impact the life of others positively. We should just be aware and practice this consciously. Over time it will become our nature. Suddenly you may also realize that people will start to respect us for this quality.Do to others what you would have them do to you. Be Compassionate.
More detailsPublished - Thu, 16 Jun 2022
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